Giving up social media was such a relief in my life. I didn’t realize how much baggage comes with these apps. I gave up social media for Lent and focused on my blog & Poshmark. I chose to let go of the rest because I started to notice that I mindlessly go on Facebook & Instagram multiple times a day, I literally can’t remember what I looked at. The habit was getting bad and I didn’t feel any control.
I gave it up cold turkey, but told myself I could go back on for Saint Patrick’s day because how could I miss a holiday via social media? When the day came, I didn’t feel the need to sign-in, so I stayed off.
Social media is an outlet for everyone. It just depends on which outlet the individual needs. For me, I get my celebrity gossip or updates, fashion inspiration, & live vicariously through my newsfeed via Instagram. I’m like every ordinary 30-something woman (very early 30’s I would like to add) I like to show off my latest outfit (#ootd) and popping bottles on the weekend also known as brunch.
But what else do I get from it?
– Connecting to people without seeing them. My love language is quality time, maybe connecting this way isn’t beneficial for me.
-FOMO: Fear of missing out. Anytime a friend posts something fun and I’m not doing it, I get a sense of missing out.
– Unrealistic expectations: Everyone is showing themselves living their best lives. So when scrolling through your feed it’s only natural to compare your life to others. We all know that, what we show on social media is a certain version of our lives. It’s not all rainbows and butterflies all the time. My dogs don’t pose in matching bandanas all day, they make my house a mess and drive me crazy sometimes. But I don’t show that.
-I also can’t wear an outfit twice for a picture because apparently that’s a rule on social media that most women abide by. π€¦π»ββοΈ
I’m also wasting time on social media when I can be interacting with people around me. I think that’s the biggest one. Get off your phone and talk to people, stop posting about your life being fabulous and start being fabulous.
So the day came, for me to log back in and it was such a let down. I didn’t feel the high I normally got from checking and updating myself with other people’s lives. I was actually bored and unsatisfied.
During the time of my social media blackout, I gravitated towards reaching out to people more. I didn’t realize that I did this while doing it, but that’s what the blackout did for me. I didn’t have a feed to keep updates on my family and friends. So I pulled a 90’s/early 2000’s style way of communicating and actually talked to people more in my life.
Above: Shows the negative side effects that our phones and technology do to us.
Below: Gives an overview of how many people are on each social media platform and how often we log-in.
Social media means and does a lot of different things to everyone. Taking a step back, made me realize how glued to my phone I was and how unhealthy that habit made me feel. I don’t hate social media, but I definitely will not spend the time I previously gave to that habit. I have decided that I will get rid of the main social media outlets that I use because I don’t need them anymore. I may chose to upload them again, but right now that’s the direction I am going.
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